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Your Formula for Life

There is no universal formula for having it all.
You have to design your own.

A huge component of any life design is based on the choices we make.  We truly have the power to choose our own path.  An acceptance of anything except a life that suits us exactly, is not living by design, but rather going through the motions.

I've spent bits and pieces of time over recent years documenting my own unique formula for living life my way.  The process of consciously thinking through my formula and why it suits me created such clarity for me.  It helped me define my priorities and be honest with myself when I wasn't actually living by them.  This process was so useful for me, I thought; why not share it with other women who are living the juggling act as well?

My “formula” for managing responsibilities while keeping time for me is a work in progress and will always constantly be in motion.  But having the process of defining my formula firmly in place is going to allow me to tweak and improve upon it as priorities change and things in my life shift. It's this process that I hope to share with you through the information contained in this site.  You can review my process, and my current formula in various areas of life as a starting point for creating your own formula for living life your way.

  About Kelly


This journey, creating my formula for life, has solidified my commitment to continuous growth and development. In addition, and maybe even more importantly, the journey has helped me define the most critical tenets I want to live by.

Love yourself first and be glad you are different, for how boring would it be if we were all the same!

Speak up!  You have a voice and you have great ideas, so don't hold them back. Throw them out there into the universe.

Trust your instincts. You already know the answer, so never accept that the status quo is inevitable, when it doesn’t feel right for you.

If it's not exciting, don't waste your time on it.  You have unique passions; know them and pursue them. You can always make it work.

Pay attention to what you want to grow and let go of what drags you down. We are all capable of both with a little bit of conscious effort.


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About Kelly

Kelly McCann, Co-Designer of Your Formula for Life
Kelly McCann

Life System Design Strategist

I'm an almost 40-year-old lady with active children, a husband, a dog, a career, great friends, a home and an unbelievable desire to help others learn how to create space in their life for their passions!

My own "formula for life" came about as I came to the realization that somewhere along the path of all of the above, I had gotten bogged down in responsibility and was losing site of the direction I wanted to point myself in life.

With some research, reading, and education from life design experts, I began to remember that life is all just about choices I am capable of making every day, and that I can design my life and live it however I choose to.

That's why I'm here and what Your Formula for Life is all about!  I'm going to help you create systems for the responsibilities in your life so you can have more time for fun!  I take an unbelievably practical approach to life systems strategies because I want you to succeed!  I will help you every step of the way as you decide where to start and how to take control and move forward in designing your formula for life!


Try Before You Buy!

Your Formula For Life is currently offering some excellent free programs and resources!  Click the links below to sign up for any and all free resources and get a better idea of what YFFL is all about!

Sign up for the YFFL monthly newsletter and get exclusive tips and tricks that I've learned and am trying in my own Formula For Life!  Sign up today and also receive your free Guidebook "4 Tips to Make You Take Action and Accomplish More in 2016!"


Is there a better way to start tweaking and improving your own formula for living than to learn from other women? Click below to sign up for the YFFL Real Women Guest blog series and receive weekly blogs from a new woman with fresh perspective on topics of interest each week right to your inbox!


The Healthy Habit Reset series includes 12 challenges delivered to your inbox over the course of 4 weeks with an intention placed on helping you to reset basic healthy habits so you can get back to feeling your best!


The Organize Your Life program includes 12 challenges delivered to your inbox over a four week period and will help you set up the basic building blocks of a more organized life!  Organize personal finances, your calendar & to-do list and create a system for home responsibilities!


Stayed tuned to this section of the YFFL site for more free programs and resources as they are released!  I'm really looking forward to this journey we are about to embark on and to hearing about the final results as you develop, improve and tweak your own formula for living your best life!

Who Can Benefit from This Information?

  • the woman who is searching for more space in her life, more time for self and less chaos
  • the woman who is seeking efficiencies in how she utilizes her time
  • the woman who wants more time for family and less time spent on everday responsibilities
  • the woman looking for that ever-elusive element of balance, the delicate juggle of family, career, friends and fun!
  • the woman who really wants to learn how to say no to all of her perceived obligations
  • the woman seeking self acceptance, improved energy levels and overall better health
  • the "grumpy mom" wanting to reduce stress and be more present for her children and spouse


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Start Designing

Where to start if you want to make some changes in your life? Well, here is my philosophy: it's important to start with some common stepping stones so you have a solid base to work from. I believe these stepping stones include the guidebook topics you'll see below.

These topics are the core elements in the design of my best life. My best life is still under construction, but having a solid handle on these base essentials has allowed me to move on to more specifics in my design such as doing more things that give me butterflies (eg. writing these guidebooks and starting this website!)

I'm most excited to share with you that the guidebooks covering these baseline life design elements aren't just a compilation of suggestions, tips and ideas. The best part, I believe, is that at the end of each guidebook there is a multiple day step-by-step action guide to help you implement the suggestions in the book. I'm going to systematically walk you through daily activities so that you can consider and design your own formula and I'm going to tell you what to add to your daily to-do list so that these new habits you are developing have a chance to stick.

I personally really enjoy reading about strategies that other women implement in their own busy lives to ease the juggling and circumvent the chaos, but I often get stuck when it comes to exactly how to implement the suggestions they've described in my own life.  The guidebooks I've developed absolutely address this concern via the multi-day action plan included at the end of each.

The steps are designed in such a way so that you start by considering a few things about yourself as an individual so that you truly are designing your own formula, one that has a better chance of sticking in your life.  After the brainstorming we move on to implementation where you create your own action plan.  The third and final step is a follow-up assessment as to your success at implementing your own formula.  How do I ensure you do not skip this follow-up?  A reminder that we put in your to-do list for several weeks in the future.  This reminder asks you to look back and honestly evaluate how successful you were at implementing your design changes and where exactly you can improve.  Then, with that new and improved information, we begin designing again from step one.  This is how we systematically ensure the formula created through this process fits for you!

Remember, your formula is not going to be the same as mine or anyone else's for that matter. But to speed the process of implementation, it's ok to take my templates and suggestions and build on them to make them your own.

So, that's the design process in a nutshell. I hope you've made the choice that this is the time to create a life that's just for you. Take a crack at creating a formula for the most important elements of your life where you'd like to see change first.  It's time to design your formula for life!

  The GuideBooks

"Kelly makes wonderful suggestions for balancing work, life, family, and adding those all together, happiness. There is a focus on taking an honest look at your life and priorities. If you aren't serious about wanting to make your life better, whatever that means to you, then this may not be for you. I love the comments about not feeling guilty for making your own happiness as much of a priority as your family's. The sections and stories are relatable for every single person!"

- Bobbi-Jo Schweitzer -

"After reading and participating in the programs from the various guidebooks included in “Your Formula for Life”, I found a variety of subject matter within the program that was relevant to my life style and life expectations. The lessons, examples and suggestions offered give the blueprint to success but allow for lots of personal adaptation. The topics and ideas in the program bring to the forefront a life that we often react to instead of plan and prepare for. Kelly is very open and honest in sharing her pursuit to achieve her own formula."

- Lynne Musselman -

"Kelly is one of the most organized and motivated people I know. I often wondered how she managed it all without sacrificing time with her family. I'm glad she's finally sharing her "secrets" for achieving a healthy balance of personal happiness, family harmony and professional success."

- Catherine Hibbard -


Take this opportunity to do some exploration about your own formula for living your best life as you read about the journey I travelled in arriving at mine (or at least where I've arrived at today!).  Implement the ideas that intrigued you during your reading and do some of your own brainstorming with the multi-day step by step program included at the end of each guidebook.

Want to learn more about my style and the practical advice I provide before you buy?  Check out the free guidebook titled "Take Action & Accomplish More!" by subscribing to my monthly newsletter.

Take Action and Accomplish More!


This free guidebook includes 4 simple tips that are going to make you take action and accoomplish more!  Imagine, 4 changes that you can implement into your life that will have you moving forward faster than ever before.  No matter what your goal or how much you want to change or accomplish, these four tips are going to have you setting the pace and designing a life that fits you exactly!


Create Your Formula for Life Guidebooks


Have you ever described your life as busy or chaotic?  Looking for some specific, practical advice to help you put systems in place to manage your everyday responsibilities?  Really hoping to design a life that suits your personality and priorities?  This 200 page guidebook focuses in on your own self-care, clean(er) eating, fitness that's fun for you, personal financial budgets, family schedule coordination & home organization......ideas layed out clearly and followed by step by step actions for you to take so you can design your own formula for living a life that suits you exactly!To sweeten this deal, when you purchase this package you will receive a bonus guide for office workers looking to gain efficiency at work so you can get in and get out and back to the rest of your life!  Finally, this purchase includes personal email coaching from me!  Take the opportunity to ask me your questions and pick my brain for 30 days from the date of purchase and let me provide support specific to you and your formula!



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Home Away From Home

25 August 2016

In the midst of turning forty (still hasn’t quite sunk in yet that I am forty!) it donned on me that I have now lived half of my life outside of my hometown. I came to Guelph after college in 1997 when offered a temporary job at the University of Guelph. At the time of taking that job, I had no intention of making the Royal City my new home but it has now been almost 20 years and here I remain.

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Alive or Just Living?

19 August 2016

These jobs that have to be done, that help keep my life on track don’t make me feel alive. Sometimes, they make me feel wooden. Robotic. An automaton on auto-pilot. So for this Your Formula for Life, I decided to describe how I fight against that feeling of lifelessness…by setting aside, for awhile, the tasks of living and indulging wholeheartedly in feeling alive.

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Belly Fat

9 August 2016

For the first time in my almost 40 years, I’ve got a spare tire! I know, cry me a river right? We all have our body woes, but over the years my flat belly has actually provided me some sense of relief and pride. While my oh-so-practical child bearing hips did help me wiz through the delivery of my two children, finding pants to fit them along with my thunder thighs is often a challenge. To top this off, my larger bottom is most certainly exaggerated due to the less than abundant top I’ve also been blessed with.

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Finding Time to Connect with Nature....... Alone

5 August 2016

Neither kid was really interested in that canoe trip. I tried every trick in the book, short of bribery, to coax them into coming with me. “C’mon, it will be fun!” “We might see some cool animals!” “We get to spend some time together!”. Nope. Not a budge. I think at that time, an intense game of Monopoly was more important.

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Motivation versus Practical How-To Advice

30 July 2016

I still believe in the mission of YFFL. I still want to help overwhelmed ladies gain some control over their responsibilities. I want them to implement smooth, efficient systems to knock off their to-do list in record time and create more space for their own fun, whatever that may be!

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Be Brave and Be Kind

28 July 2016

3 years ago, my life was turned upside down due to a major change. I separated from my husband at the time, and started a new chapter in life as a single mom. I will never forget how difficult that process was, but I do believe that struggle has played a role in some of the very positive life changes I’ve made since then. During the divorce process, I needed to be brave on so many fronts, confront some hard truths, and begin renegotiating many of the most important relationships in my life. The most important relationship I needed to renegotiate was my relationship with myself!

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41 Years Young

25 July 2016

Why is this week’s pimple more irritating than most? Well to start with – I’m freaking 41! Why in the heck do I still get pimples when I am 41? It is just such bull shit! My friends have heard me say this a hundred times at least – I feel like there needs to be something good that comes from aging… and I think no more pimples should definitely be that one good thing for me.

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Can You Really Find The Good In Any Situation?

22 July 2016

Generally I feel very enlightened and inspired after I hear or read anything from Wayne Dyer – but this one hit a roadblock in my mind. In the particular situation described in the podcast there may have been some remote possibility that she could take his advice and make it useful. I suspect he did not mean it as a blanket statement that could apply to every horrible situation that I could come up with – but that’s where my mind went.

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The Physical From Hell

18 July 2016

At this point as you can imagine, I just wanted to get the hell out of there never to return – but I still had the pap test left to go. I can’t remember what I said but somehow I must have conveyed the urgency I was feeling to get this thing done because he finally got the show on the road – or he tried to. As it turns out it was a new bottle of lube and his fingers were fumbling in his rush to get through this part so he couldn’t get the little foil part off the top of the bottle. By this point my patience was completely shot – so I just grabbed the tube and opened it for him.

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